Houston Kinky Personals Fetlife Group (Houston City) Sex & Swingers Club
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Address: Houston, TX, USA
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/groups/6936
Welcome to Houston’s oldest and most popular “Personals Section” – the original… This group was started shortly after Fetlife came to be. It has been locally run ever since by people that have been in the local lifestyle community for years.
This is a group for those seeking various aspects of BDSM and relationships with people who are interested in BDSM in the Houston Area.
Looking for a buddy? You can find them here.
Looking for a date to that event coming up next weekend? You can find them here.
Looking for a room mate? You can find them here.
Need some help getting to Saturday meetings or events around Houston? You can find them here.
Looking for the love of your life? You never know, you may find it here!
Looking to get laid? – word your ad VERY carefully as this is NOT a swingers site!
If you are looking to cheat on your spouse or significant other – be prepared to be ostracized and painted pink, tarred and feathered and humiliated. One of the foundations of this lifestyle is trust and honesty. If you are looking to cheat – you violate that – and folks take that pretty seriously..
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Rules
This is a personals ad area – there is a lot of lee-way, and a lot of grey area. However, comma…
Users may post up messages about what they are looking for, personally. As long as they aren’t spamming the group, making other users uncomfortable or being a general pain in the butt.
You can post up commercial services – but not BDSM or “personal services”. Want to make some money mowing lawns? Do you make corsets and floggers? You need help moving on Saturday? Cool. Are you a Dominatrix looking for victims? There’s other groups for that, that isn’t allowed here. Have a questions about this? PM a Moderator
If you make a habit of creeping out enough members that the moderators have to pay attention to you, you will be banned. If numerous female users come to us with complaints – you are out, plain and simple. We try to PROTECT the submissives in Houston, without them we wouldn’t have an eager pool of people to play with.
It is our goal to allow people a lot of lee-way here as long as that privilege is not abused.
Personal attacks will not be tolerated. However, if you make a habit of being a pest to a number of people, you can pretty much bet that a number of people will be allowed to let you know what an ass you are making of yourself. The local scene has an interesting way of policing itself, lechers and creepy Doms don’t last too long in an atmosphere of total honesty and open communication…
If you post like a troll and act like a douche – expect the “community” at large to let you know about it in no uncertain terms.
After of a review of FetLife guidelines and TOS, the below shall now apply. Fetlife Guidelines/ToS do not allow the following, so neither do we. Do NOT post about the following:
- Underage: Ageplay (Daddy/girl, Mommy/boy, etc.) is kosher as long as you don’t mention age in a sexual context.
- Incest
- Zoophilia, Necrophilia, and Scat
- Hard Crush & Animal Cruelty
- Murder or Blood
- Personally attacks
- Any type of racism or hate
- Any personally identifying information about another member
- Cross-posting
- Solicit or sell any kind of sex for hire.
- Intentionally or unintentionally violate any applicable local, state, national or international law
- Purchase any goods or services that you are prohibited from purchasing or possessing by any law applicable to you in your jurisdiction
- Offer Any controlled substances or pharmaceuticals
•Nothing non-consensual (abduction, rape, etc.)
With that being said…
Here’s the long extensive list of rules for this forum:
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- NO SPAMMING THE GROUP! You may BUMP your Ad once a week.
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- Be nice.
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- Be respectful.
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- Be tolerant of those with different interests than you.
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- Make your replies thoughtful and helpful, bullshit will get you banned.
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- Don’t be afraid to offer advice to a newbie.
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- Don’t piss off the moderators.
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- Be civil to one another.
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- No professional advertisements for cash, ass or services. (This includes FinDoms!)
(Ads of a vanilla commercial nature can be allowed, just not BDSM and “personal services”)
- No professional advertisements for cash, ass or services. (This includes FinDoms!)
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- Blocking the moderators will gain you automatic BANNED status with no warning.
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- Advertisements for blatantly ILLEGAL activities will not only get you banned but you may be reported. (We shouldn’t even HAVE to say this, but…)
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- “Dirty deleting” – as in deleting the content of your message after people have replied to you will get you banned. DO NOT DIRTY DELETE!
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- “Dirty Edit” – if you significantly edit your post after comments are made, you will get banned.
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- Deactivate – If you post and then deactivate your account, your post will be deleted.
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- Sex workers with any mention of compensation for companionship or sexual activity in your post OR ON YOUR PROFILE gets you banned permanently.
This group serves the HOUSTON LIFESTYLE COMMUNITY. Not your own selfish and sexual desires, even though you are welcome to post them. Just don’t expect us to honor your “This is America and I have Free speech” claim if you start bending the spirit of the rules or become a pest to other users. We will not allow you, as an individual to run off nice people who respect the rules and other peoples feelings, wants and needs.
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