The Paradise (Pocono Mountains) Sex & Swingers Club

We are a couples and single female only adult lifestyle social club that provides a friendly, relaxed atmosphere where couples and single females may socialize with others of similar interests. We are more than a swingers club. Being a lifestyle club means that we accept everyone whether you are a full swap couple or a committed couple that just enjoys a sexually charged atmosphere with like minded adults. We allow you to decide how your evening will progress. We provide an ideal environment that allows you to move at your own pace with everyone on common ground. Relax in the Social Area or the Poolside Cafe, share your most intimate fantasies and then enjoy the pool, hot-tub or dance area. When the mood is right for you, move on to the most exotic rooms available anywhere.

You can choose one of the fantasy rooms for two, four or more and have the erotic sights and sounds of others enjoying all the sensual pleasures available to you. There are four bathrooms with showers to freshen up. For those who are more adventurous, move on to the group area for the ultimate in multiple sensual pleasures. This is where you can enjoy your wildest fantasies and enjoy all the erotic pleasures you’ve only fantasized about.

New to the Lifestyle? We were all new at one time and understand feelings of anxiety. You will find that those who are experienced in the lifestyle are very understanding, patient and caring people who are extremely sensitive to your feelings. Your presence at our socials does not obligate you to participate. We have several couples that come to socialize but not necessarily participate. We encourage that you move slowly into the lifestyle and enjoy the experience with your partner.

If you’re looking for an alternative to the high pressure, night club-meat market atmosphere and want something more intimate without the tension of having to participate, then we will be perfect for you.

There are no aggressive, intimidating or pushy people. Only friendly, open minded people who enjoy meeting others. There will be pleasant conversations while they help you begin your journey into the most enjoyable lifestyle. You are not required to do anything except have a good time. We are confident you will find lasting friendships with our members and have a most memorable evening.

The Paradise Club Features

• A 20′ X 40′ indoor swimming pool with waterfalls
• Large intimate outdoor hot tub
• 3,000 sq. ft. five level outdoor party deck
• Cozy comfortable socializing areas
• Billiards room
• Dining Room
• Candle-lit Poolside Cafe
• Complimentary Snacks & Beverages (B.Y.O.B)
• Spacious lounge
• Erotic videos
• Large dance floor
• Fully computerized high-tech Light & Sound System
• High-tech, 64 Sq. Ft. Music/Video Projection System
• Fully air-conditioned for your comfort
• Private, semi-private and group rooms, including…

The Harem Room

Arabian nights await you in this sexy and inviting den of a thousand fantasies come true! Perfect for that four-some, six-some or more-some! With walls and ceilings draped with airy, gossamer veils and animal prints throughout, you will feel the essence of mystery and intrigue surrounding you and know the night is full of exquisite possibilities!

Pleasures Of the Orient

Feel the hidden treasures of the orient overwhelm your senses when you enter this exotic hideaway. The romantic setting will entice you as you are surrounded by the sights of the Far East. Your passion grows and you slowly, sensually, softly undress your partner to reveal the true delights you have been waiting for! With low lighting, enticing décor and an elaborate mural, the night’s fantasies are about to begin!

Roman Delights

This arena was made for the Roman orgy you’ve often read about! Whether you like to play in a group, or just near one, the sights and sounds that penetrate this lair are powerfully seductive. This is the most popular place in the club since it fuels both the voyeuristic and exhibitionist side. With columns adorning the room, stone benches made for those who love to watch the action and three tiers to play on, the scenarios are endless! Watch as others perform while you enjoy your partner or invite others to join you to play. With all those hands moving about, the encounters become quite erotic and exciting! This is the hottest action you will ever be a part of!

The Red Room

One of our newest additions. A room of pleasure, seduction, maybe a little pain. Bring your fantasies and who knows, they may just become a reality.

Club Rules

You only have one chance to make a great first impression!

Looking out over a sea of sexy, sensual and enticingly dressed people is one of the greatest treats at a lifestyle club! The Paradise Club creates that sexy, upscale atmosphere by requiring members to follow our “dress to impress” code.

Men: No sneakers, t-shirts, undershirts, gym clothing, or baseball caps.

Ladies: Sexy and seductive outfit is recommended. The club provides several areas if you wish to change once you arrive at the party.

For our Theme parties, such as; “Halloween”, “Leather & Lace”, “New Years Eve”, etc., we recommend dressing with the theme. Although we encourage members to attend theme parties, events are never mandatory. However, it is amazing how exciting it is to dress-up and join in the fun! You can find a list of the Theme parties under our “Calendar Of Events”.

Management reserves the right to refuse anyone from entering the club based on overall appearance or demeanor.

Lifestyle Explained

Lifestyle (sometimes referred to as the swing lifestyle or simply swinging) refers to relationships in which the partners participate in some form of consensual non-monogamous sexual experiences. The overall concept of a swing lifestyle club is to provide a safe place where everyone can act out their personal sexual fantasies. The exact fantasies are up to the person, but the hope is by providing a safe place these fantasies will be enacted and will grow into even more fulfilling sexual experiences.

Most on-premise (sexual activity can occur at the party location) lifestyle clubs provide the opportunity to explore as much or as little of the lifestyle as each person is comfortable with. On-premise clubs usually offer great DJ’s and popular bands playing music for dancing throughout the evening as well as venues (play areas) for varying degrees of sexual activity. While not all couples attend the parties to share partners or play with others, many like to know there are many possibilities out there. Some are open to sharing intercourse with their partners and friends. Others will flirt and enjoy threesomes or sexual acts that do not include actual intercourse. The most important thing is to have open discussions with others that might be interested prior to initiating any play. Communication is a must in the lifestyle and this means between partners and others.

Consensual Sensuality!

The lifestyle is built upon the concept that all parties are free to consent or reject any request to participate in sexual play. The biggest rule is “NO means NO”. Nobody, male or female, should have to say no twice, nor explain their answer of “No thank you”. There are many reasons people might not be interested in interactions. Many partners have a “safe word” between each other for removing themselves from an awkward situation politely. Everyone is encouraged to discuss and agree upon their rules for themselves and their partner prior to attending or participating in their first party. Every relationship is different and therefore every relationship has its own set of rules that will work, and those that won’t.

What is a Lifestyle Party?

Most lifestyle parties are social parties for couples. Couples tend to dress up as they would for any downtown club or bar. However, at lifestyle functions you get to be a bit more daring and provocative—it’s a chance to wear that revealing outfit that isn’t quite appropriate for downtown. Many times the parties are themed—imagine the possibilities for Halloween!!! No one is ever required to wear specific clothes (nor any clothes in some play areas) but it can make clothes shopping a lot more fun.

Each new experience and party will provide partners with ample avenues for discussion. Over time, relationships expand and grow as new fantasies are explored. Many times partners will change or adapt their boundaries over time through this discussion process. The lifestyle means something different to each person. There is nothing any person ever HAS to do and no one should ever feel they MUST say yes to a play request. There are many couples that enjoy lifestyle frienships and social events especially the great dances, but do not participate in the sexual activities. This is a great open-minded community that appreciates people, their friendships and the many differences there are between all of us.

What do we wear?

Go to “Dress Code” page. All the information is listed there.

How far in advance should we make our reservations?

Reservations are made on a first come, first serve basis. We also limit the number of newcomers.

Can we just walk-in?

NO!.  We do not allow walk ins.  You must make reservations to attend all parties.

What is the age range of members?

We have some of the sexiest people come from miles around, anywhere from mid twenties to late forties and fifties! There is always something for everyone!

Where are you located?

We are approximately 15-20 minutes from the Delaware Water Gap in PA. Our exact location is given out  during our interview and after you are scheduled for your first visit.

How confidential is the information we give?

Very. We do not give out information to anyone, including club members. Even as a club member, we will introduce you by your first names only. If you choose to give out any more information, that is your choice.

What is your policy on “SINGLES”?

Our policy is simple; no single men. We are a couples and single female friendly club that caters to a sexy and pressure free environment

What time should we arrive?

We ask that newcomers arrive between 7 & 8pm.
Our events start at 8!

What are your club fees?

Go to the “Become a Member” page. All the information is listed there.

How do we make our first appointment to visit?

Go to the “Become a Member” page. All the instructions are listed there.

Must we go through the interview process?

Yes. Everyone who comes here must go through the interview process. You’ll then be given a tour of our club and then have an opportunity to talk with some of our members. Then it’s decision time…. If you like what you see and we feel that you’ll be comfortable here, we’ll offer you a membership!  If you would like to leave and think it over, that’s fine too, but you’ll miss out on all the fun!

Are we required to participate in the lifestyle?

No…. The only thing we require from our members is that you make friends and have fun! If you choose to take it further, that would be your choice we promote a no pressure environment. You move at your own pace!

What type of people come to your club?

We cater to a professional and sexy crowd, and there is always something for everyone!

Do you have club rules?

Yes. They are listed under the “Club Rules” page

What amenities does your club offer?

What don’t we offer?! Take a peek through our website to see it all!

Are you open on Friday’s?

No we are open Saturdays only with a few exceptions! Keep your eyes peeled for those updates! 

What parties are scheduled?

A full list of scheduled parties can be found on the “Upcoming Parties” page and on the side menu. Most parties will have a specific theme which will be detailed in the party description.

Are there hotels/motels in the area?

Yes. We are right in the heart of the Pocono Mountain Region; we have quite a few Hotels, Motels and Resorts within a few miles of us.

Can you send us printed information?

No. Since we have this website, we are no longer sending out printed materials. If you’re reading this information, you will find out more about this club then we were ever able to send by mail.

How discreet are you when you call?

Extremely. We make sure we’re talking with the right person. If someone other than you answers, we simply say we are returning your call and will call back.

Is smoking permitted?

Yes. However, we do try as best we can to separate the smoking areas.

Do you serve alcohol?

No. We cannot supply, pour or in any way provide alcoholic beverages. As a Club Member, you can bring your own bottle (BYOB).
We supply mixers and soft drinks only. You must take your bottles home after each party. Any bottles left will be discarded. Remember to place any open bottles of liquor you leave with in the trunk of your car. It’s the law.

What about drugs?

We have a ZERO tolerance for any drugs on this property. If you are caught, you will be removed immediately, your Membership will be terminated (with no refund) and you will never be permitted to return.

Do you have food at the events?

Yes. We provide a full dinner buffet. We cater our own parties so the menu is always unique and original!

Are you open year round?

Yes. Please check the “Upcoming Parties” page for the full schedule.

AC/DC	Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual.
Adult	Euphemism for pornographic.
All Cultures	Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)
Anal	Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture.
Arts	Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures
B&D	Bondage and discipline (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
Bi	Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC)
Bi-Curious	A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
Bizarre	Unusual sexual desires
Bondage	A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered “dominant” while the person being bound is considered “submissive.”
Can Entertain	Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
Can Travel	Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
Caning	A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
Cheating	Sexual activity with others without spouse’s knowledge and/or consent.
Clean	Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
Closed Door	(see CLOSED SWINGING)
Closed Swinging	Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other’s swinging. The rooms are almost always in the same house/hotel.
Closet Swinger	A person who hides the he/she is a swinger.
Couple	In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
CPL	(see COUPLE)
Culture	Euphemism for Fetish, Arts
ENGLISH:	Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning
FRENCH:	Oral-genital sexual activity
GREEK:	Anal-penile intercourse
ROMAN:	Sexual orgies
SWEDISH:	Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another Cunnilingus Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE)
Dildo	An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
Director	The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.
Discipline	A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
Discretion	Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
Docile	Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
Domestic Training	Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
Dominant	A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
Entertain	(see CAN ENTERTAIN)
Exhibitionist	A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.
F	Female
Fellatio	Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
Fetish	Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
Flagellation	Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
Fun and Games	Euphemism for sexual activity.
Gay	A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
Generous	Refers to money for sex.
Group Room	Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).
Group Sex Swinging	Sexual activity between three or more people.
Hard Core	A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
Hard Swinging	(see HARD CORE)
Head	Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head”
Hedonist	Someone who lives for pleasure.
Heterosexual	Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
Homosexual	Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
Horny	Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
Hung	Refers to a man with a large penis.
HWP	Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.
Indoor Sports	Swinging activities in general.
Interested in Friendship	Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.
Leather	A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.
Lesbian	A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY)
Martial Aids	Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.
Masochism	Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
Master/Slave	Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
Matroom	Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).
Meet for Pleasure	Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
Menage a’ Trois	Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants. {see THREESOME, TRIAD)
Moresomes	More than three people in a swinging interaction.
NASCA	The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.
Newcomers	New people in swinging; First-timers.
Non Smoker	Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
Open Door	(see OPEN SWINGING)
Open Swinging	A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room; (Western US) Swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of the party.
Oral-Genital	(see CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)
Orgy	Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex.
Party	Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
Party Clothes	Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
Party House	(Western US) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
Passive	Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)
Photo	Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
Photography	Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
P/P	Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
Pro	Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
Recreational Swinger	A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.
Restraint	Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
Roman	Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see CULTURE, ROMAN)
Rubber	Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
Safe	Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy.
S.A.S.E.	Self-addressed stamped envelope.
SGL	(see SINGLE)
S&M	Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).
Single	A swinger without a partner, single or married.
Social	A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
Social Swing Club	A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
Soft	Swinging Used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or swapping up to, but not including intercourse. The term developed in Southern California in the early 1970′s (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).
STD	Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970′s to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.
STR or STR8	(see STRAIGHT)
Straight	Any person who is not interested in same sex sexual activity or a person who does not use drugs.
Swapping	Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
Swing Magazine	A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.
Swinging	Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved.
Swinging Lifestyle	Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
Swinging Marriage	Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
Submissive	(see PASSIVE)
Threesome	Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a “menage a’ trois” in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship.
Ticket	A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
Toys	Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)