Secrets – Tulsa (Tulsa City) Sex & Swingers Club

Club Secrets has been hosting LS Events for over 9 years in Tulsa Metro area.

 

Most events are held at route 66 event hall on occasion we do other events, Hotel Takeovers  and Cash Bar Takeovers neither is open to general public. $1 of your entrance fee covers your membership we do ask that you have a basic understanding of Lifestyle rules, No means No, Zero Drama will be tolerated. The host require all members to wear arm bands while at the  ALL events zero tolerance!

 

Club Secrets does allow single females and a very select well validated males (very limited). Males must be pre-approved. Single Males you are guest(s) of the lifestyle and will be held to higher standard of conduct.  No Warnings will be given.  A few tips be respectful to both husband and wife, don’t be offended if someone says no allways ask before touching. Dress to impress.

Membership Requirements all can be handled at the event door, by attending event you must agree to the following:

1.)That you are 21 years of age

2.)Agree not to drink and drive, and follow all posted rules and follow all city, state and federal laws at our events.

3.)Zero Tolerance for Drug use, not being polite to anyone zero tolerance for drama.

4.)No means No!!  Always ask prior to touching.

5.) The Club reserves the right to ban, evict, remove any patron for disruptive behavior. 

Our basic rules must be 21 years of age, have basic understanding of the lifestyle rules (see below), be in commited relationship, don’t drink and drive we offer hotel options at our events, and drama caused will result in being removed from the event and possible banning of attending future  club events.

 

Please read below a general outline of the lifestyle do and don’ts and other information.

 

Swinging Dos and Don’ts

 

Dos

• Be truthful and honest.
• Talk to your partner; let them know your feelings.
• Be yourself.
• Decide what your needs are, your interests and desires.
• Tell other people what your needs, interests and desires are.
• Use Protection.
• Be willing to try new things… within your limits.
• Move at your own pace � Don’t be rushed by other people.
• Respond even if it’s to say ‘no thanks’
• Research
• Have Fun

 

 

Don’ts

• Don’t be rude.
• Don’t be vague about your desires.
• Don’t Lie
• Don’t cross other people’s limits
• Don’t Cheat!!
• Don’t give out personal information until you’re very comfortable with others.

New Couples Guide:

Suggestions for New Couples

Stay together as much as you feel you need to, but don’t hold onto one another like your life depended on it, or seem clingy, as this will make it more difficult for other couples to approach you.

As time goes on at the party there may be general ‘disrobing’. Only go as far as you want to and feel comfortable with. You will be accepted if you chose to remain fully clothed, although it is recommended that you try to include your self as much as possible, changing into something more revealing will help others include you and make you feel more involved.

Don’t worry about asking your hosts or other guests questions, swingers are generally interested in meeting new people, and will help explain the lifestyle as much as possible.

If there is a hot tub or spa for instance, try to use it, being nude, close to other people with a valid reason will help you make new friends.

Try as hard as you can to leave your inhibitions at home, both sexual and social. These can interfere with your swinging pleasure, you can’t expect to get much out of a swingers party if your not prepared to put much in.

Don’t pretend to be someone else, be friendly and good natured. A warm smile has a positive effect on every body.

We hope you enjoyed our ‘Suggestions for New Couples’ page and that it met up to your expectation.