Sex & swingers clubs in Texas (TX) (2025)
Looking for sex clubs in Texas? Explore Houston headliners, Dallas cosmopolitan venues, and Austin’s creative rotations. This guide to swingers clubs in Texas covers rules, prices, dress code, singles policy, hours, and a statewide map.
Top areas
Texas's lifestyle scene reflects its vast geography and diverse cultural heritage, with Houston anchoring the state's most vibrant calendar and smaller communities providing intimate alternatives. The Lone Star State's largest city offers year-round indoor venues, sophisticated hotel takeovers, and themed events that draw both locals and visitors seeking Texas's unique blend of Southern hospitality and Western charm. Houston's metropolitan area hosts the most consistent calendar with emphasis on professional crowds and upscale venues, while Dallas offers cosmopolitan sophistication and Austin provides university-town energy. Hosts prioritize thorough screening processes, comprehensive consent briefings, and clear communication—expect detailed RSVP requirements and strict privacy protocols that create comfortable environments for all attendees. Dress codes range from smart-casual to elegant, with seasonal adjustments for outdoor venues and theme nights that showcase Texas's distinctive character. Spring and fall bring peak activity with festivals, holidays, and regional meetups. Summers offer pool formats and resort tie-ins, while winters focus on cozy indoor spaces with earlier start times. The scene values Southern hospitality and neighborly etiquette, making it welcoming for newcomers while maintaining the discretion and professionalism that veterans expect.
Prices and hours in Texas
Typical covers range from $20–$60 for couples on standard nights with higher pricing for premium themes or resort tie‑ins. Doors commonly run 8 pm–2 am on weekends; pool formats and hotel takeovers may open earlier. Always check the event listing for exact times.
Singles policy in Texas
Texas metros use balanced ratios: Houston leans couples‑first on Saturdays; Dallas often has designated solo‑friendly nights; Austin favors curated lists tied to themes. Solos typically pre‑apply and confirm by RSVP with ID at check‑in.
Fast facts
- Strongholds: Metro hubs lead; suburbs rotate socials
- Formats: Polished club nights, resort/pool formats
- Access: Membership/screening on peak nights
- Alcohol: BYOB common privately; clubs may run bars
- Seasonality: Spring/Fall peaks; holiday takeovers
Map and navigation
Browse by counties and cities below.
Top cities in Texas
- Amarillo City
Amarillo City page - Austin City
Austin City page - Dallas City
Dallas City page - El Paso City
El Paso City page - Fort Worth
Fort Worth page - Houston City
Houston City page
Laws, etiquette and policies in Texas
- ID: Government ID required; 21+ typical near alcohol
- Dress: Smart‑casual to elegant; theme adherence noticed
- Consent: Hosts enforce rules; ask before touch—always
- BYOB: Common at private events; label bottles
- Logistics: Follow RSVP windows and arrival instructions
Scene and seasonality
Spring/fall peaks; summers add pool formats and resort tie‑ins; holidays host takeovers.
FAQ about Texas
Are pool events common?
Yes in warm months; bring coverups for common areas.
Typical prices and hours in Texas?
Expect $20–$60 covers for couples on standard nights; premium themes cost more. Weekend doors often run 8 pm–2 am.
What is the singles policy in Texas clubs?
Houston is couples‑priority on peak nights; Dallas schedules solo‑friendly rotations; Austin runs curated lists. Pre‑apply and confirm via RSVP/ID.
BYOB policy across Texas?
BYOB is common at private parties statewide; many clubs operate bars on theme nights. Label bottles and confirm venue rules before arrival.
Dress code
Smart‑casual to elegant; theme nights are frequent. Pool or resort events may allow swimwear—bring a coverup for common areas.
Phones and privacy
Hosts enforce privacy: no phones in play zones; staff may cover cameras on entry if required.
Singles policy?
Vetted singles sometimes allowed; check event notes.
Nearby states
Last updated: 2025-08-28
- Comal > San Antonio City
- The hosts of Alamo City Rendezvous seek to provide a venue for the Lifestyle community in the San Antonio area. They host the best parties at the most reasonable contribution to friends in the lifestyle. Club allow a very limited number of SPONSORED single gentlemen into parties. Any unsponsored single gentlemen interested in our future parties need to attend one of meet and greets.
- United States of America (USA) > Texas (TX)
- This group is for anyone living in Grand Prairie, Arlington, Irving, Mansfield, Cedar Hill, Dallas, Oak Cliff, Cockrell Hill, areas. This group is for mature open-minded singles, couples, and groups of any race or sexual persuasion. Swingers, Slut wives, Cuckolds, Cuckoldress, and interracial fetishes. Hopefully this group will lead to discussions in fantasy and reality in the FetLife world. and is open to any of the people on my Friends List, no matter where in this world you live. We can and will discuss any topic under the sun except the topics the owners of FetLife have stated that are not allowed. Rules: I stole some of these, but heck there good rules & points. behave be open minded and…
- Travis > Austin City
- This is for people in the Austin and surrounding areas (within 100 miles of Austin) that are into or are looking to get into Swinging with a Kink twist or if you are into Gangbangs. If you are a couple looking for a 3rd. A Dom / Master looking for a Sub / Slave or even a Sub / Slave looking for a Dom / Master, or swingers looking for other open minded swingers. Or even if you are looking for a gangbang we will try to make all of your fantasies happen. This group is manly for Blacks BUT not only for Blacks. If you are not black but like our company you will be welcome. Restricted to: Black…
- Travis > Austin City
- You can guess the location by the name of this site. Open since 1993 for couples and single ladies.
- Travis > Austin City
- For those who identify with, or would like to know more about the Swinger Lifestyle and Community in and around Austin, Texas. Rules The aim of this group is to allow free and open discussion of the Swinging Lifestyle and Community in and around Austin, Texas. The posts will be monitored for content, but aside from attacks on persons or places, or highly controversial statements should be free from censorship.
- Harris > Houston City
- Bang Bang Social Club is a sexy nightclub/lounge that serves top shelf well liquors, craft cocktails, and unbelievable non-alcoholic drinks for the designated drivers. Bang Bang Social Club has a lot to offer…from the inviting bar to the intimate dark corners, great music and international DJs, dancing, pool table, and karaoke night…providing the flirtatious ambiance for making new friends. Bang Bang Social Club is welcoming to everyone…we are Open/Poly/Lifestyle/LGBTQ friendly. Bang Bang Social Club Service: flirtatious ambiance VIP BOTTLE SERVICE INTIMATE DARK CORNERS DJs, DANCING & GAMES DRINKS, MOCKTAILS, FUN OPEN FOR ALL VIP BOTTLE SERVICE VIP Bottle service minimums at Bang Bang Social Club start at $250.00 for the sofa seating areas. $350 for the smaller VIP area and $550 for the large VIP…
- Comal > San Antonio City
- New Swingers Club – Great Location. BYOB club with sexually charged atmosphere.
- Travis > Austin City
- Butts. Boobs & Boats is An outdoor area swingers lifestyle group that encourages people to interact and share their sexual experiences and desires. All are welcome. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jh11kNSI40A
- Dallas > Duncanville
- Make s suggested donation ($20) and join a party in Dallas. Limited number of single men allo
- Dallas > Dallas City
- Adult Lifestyle Swinger/Polyamory Parties. It is a place where hot, and sexy people of all races come together to release their inhibitions, getting down and wild… The popularity of our parties has been growing by leaps and bounds. We have guests from all over the US and are recognized all over the world by providing the hottest venue, most diverse group of people, dance, visual and physical stimulation!
- Travis > Austin City
- Colette Austin is a private membership only on-premise social club for couples, single men and women who are active in or curious about the swinging, polyamorous or open relationship lifestyles. Our club is a great place for people of like-mind to meet in a safe, friendly and upscale atmosphere. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vGGV7HXbDU Colette Austin Features Upscale atmosphere NON-SMOKING High-tech lighting Dance floor Lockers Over 9,000 square feet! DJ mashing up a mix of dance music and party favorites Sexy vibe Friendly staff and security FREE mixers and set ups. Premium mixers available for purchase. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qg2QlWl6tLw Colette Pricing The following door pricing requires a membership. Wednesday, Thursday: COUPLES 40$ SINGLE LADIES 10$ SINGLE MEN 100$ Friday: COUPLES 60$ SINGLE LADIES 20$ SINGLE MEN 120$ Saturday: COUPLES 60$…
- Dallas > Dallas City
- Colette Dallas Features Upscale atmosphere Valet parking Non smoking High-tech lighting Dance floor Lockers Over 8,000 square feet! Lounge DJ mashing up a mix of dance music and party favorites 2nd floor lounge/sexy vibe Friendly staff and security FREE mixers and set ups. Premium mixers available for purchase. Beverage cooler available https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpSyOI0CE4U VIP ROOM AVAILABLE We have a private VIP Room available to rent for private parties of up to 30 people. It features sexy couch seating, a bar area, a music system and HD TV. For information on booking or to reserve the room, please contact us at 972.323.1100 or click the reservations button above. $250: the price does not include membership or admission to the club. $750: premium VIP rental…
- Harris > Houston City
- Colette Houston Features Upscale atmosphere NON-SMOKING High-tech lighting Dance floor Lockers Over 7,000 square feet! Lounge DJ mashing up a mix of dance music and party favorites Sexy vibe Friendly staff and security FREE mixers and set ups. Premium mixers available for purchase https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q17DKLfCL8I VIP ROOM AVAILABLE We have a private VIP Room available to rent for private parties of up to 20 people that features sexy couch seating and a round bed. $250: the price does not include membership or admission to the club. $750: premium VIP rental includes door security to keep out uninvited guests, plus non premium set ups and ice are conveniently located in the VIP room. Premium set ups can be added on for an additional…
- Hunt > Wolfe City
- Situated on 28 acres, Cupid’s Country Castle Bed and Breakfast decribes itself as a romantic gateway, but they gladly host swingers’ events and into the Lifestyle.
- Dallas > Dallas City
- For those who identify with, or would like to know more about the Swinger Lifestyle and Community in and around Dallas, Texas. Rules The aim of this group is to allow free and open discussion of the Swinging Lifestyle and Community in and around Dallas, Texas. The posts will be monitored for content, but aside from attacks on persons or places, or highly controversial statements should be free from censorship.
- Harris > Houston City
- Desires Houston is a Lifestyle Venue Located in the Greater Houston area. We cater to open minded people with a passion to explore their desire. Desires Houston is a friendly upscale lifestyle venue. You will hear a lot of different terms to describe lifestyle venues but the truth is we are mature, hard working people exploring our lives and having fun. One of the great things about Desires Houston is You can meet people from all walks of life, cultures, countries and different areas. Houston is one of the most diverse cities in the world. Desire’s Houston is a great place to meet people from all over Texas/Louisiana, Houston, Dallas, Austin, El Paso, San Antonio, Beaumont, Port Arthur, Kemah, Galveston, Woodlands, Humble,…
- Harris > Houston City
- Desirous Party hosts the wildest parties at the hottest nightclubs and bars in Houston, Dallas, and Austin. We are not a nightclub, but a promotion group that knows how to throw wild, upscale parties. Desirous Party is for the upscale individual who stands out amongst the crowd. DesirousParty themes are fun, like our guests. One does not have to dress in theme but we encourage it. Nor do you have to have a special invite. Ladies of Desirous Party are encouraged to dress as they desire. There are no rules when it comes to the ladies. So if you feel Hot then DP wants you to join us. DesirousParty also sponsors group trips to tropical destinations.
- Dallas > Dallas City
- Geared towards swingers interested in meeting other swingers, select singles both hetro an bisexual are welcome Rules gay males/females looking for other gay males/females is not acceptable towards what this group is geared for as a group. We are not bias against these groups of people nor prejudice in their choices. Restricted to Hetro or bisexual couples or single only of any age(legal) or race
- Dallas > Dallas City
- The Lifestyle Social Club with Mild (ordinary activities) and Wild (swinging) events. Last are often overnight with a morning breakfast, with dances and music, and can also be theme.
- Tarrant > Fort Worth
- Club Eden DFW Nightclub is a place sexy couples in open relationships can meet and mingle with other like mind couples. We provide a fun safe clean atmosphere with a friendly staff and down to earth customers. Club Eden is a private members only 21 and up club for the LGBT lifestyle & Domestic couples in open relationships to meet, mingle and explore their sexual freedom with like minded people, with out judgement in a safe and fun environment. https://www.youtube.com/watch?reload=9&v=E1dG25b-NdQ About Eden DFW Nightclub: 12,000 SF Large Dance Floor Awesome! Sound & Light System Music Videos Set-ups Ice Buckets 4 Play Rooms Smoking Patio Lockers Fun Theme Parties BYOB Pool Tables Photo Booth Live Bands Huge Parking Lot Private Couch Lounge ,Tables & Pub Seating Dance poles Shadow Box Dress Code:…
- Travis > Austin City
- The Element was established May 2011 in Austin, Texas. Element now has two owners, Thekatzmeeeow and Bopper69. Katz will do three to four big events at the farm by Lake Granger/WTF 101s/Photography/Fire and Bopper will be doing the Austin events/rope/classes. If you have any questions feel free to write any owner or any leader. We believe in a well rounded kinky life. also found at elementofaustin.com i’d like to build the world a home And furnish it with love Grow apple trees and honey bees And snow-white turtle doves…………………… The Philosophy of our groups is simple, “Everyone is welcome”. We want everyone to feel comfortable in their own skin here. We hope everyone enjoys themselves while showing others the respect…
- Harris > Houston City
- South Houston’s premier private on-premise social club for couples, single ladies, and single gentlemen who are active in or curious about the swinging lifestyle.
- Travis > Austin City
- Friends is open every Friday and Saturday night from 9 PM until 2 AM. It is open for couples and single ladies only, strictly a private club which do not serve alcohol. On-premises allowed.
- El Paso > El Paso City
- On-premise BYOB clubwith a live DJ, Dance floor, Pool table, theater and two stages open to customers. On-site Security.
- Harris > Houston City
- This group is for people who enjoy BDSM and swinging, Both! All who embrace both are welcome to join, to include enthusiasts, curious, newbies and veterans, alike. Rules: AS GROUP OWNER I reserve the right to remove threads and responses that violate the rules without notice to the post author. EVENT NOTICES ARE ALLOWED, however only ONE post per event. Feel free to update and bump event thread as much as you’d like. Multiple posts about the same event notice will be deleted. This group is intended to support ALL events and activities THROUGHOUT all of Houston. Also can deleted any Events no warning. NO ATTACKS TOWARD OTHERS, No exceptions. You may have a different point of view, and expressing…
- Harris > Houston City
- Group dedicated to the couples lifestyle in and around Houston. Place to ask questions and meet people of a like minded interest. Feel free to post your events and get together’s in the group. The aim of this group is to allow free and open discussion of the Swinging Lifestyle and Community in and around Houston , Texas. Rules AS GROUP OWNER I reserve the right to remove threads and responses that violate the rules without notice to the post author. EVENT NOTICES ARE ALLOWED, however only ONE post per event. Feel free to update and bump the event thread as much as you’d like. Multiple posts about the same event notice will be deleted. BE POLITE AND RESPECTFUL to…
- Harris > Houston City
- Welcome to Houston’s oldest and most popular “Personals Section” – the original… This group was started shortly after Fetlife came to be. It has been locally run ever since by people that have been in the local lifestyle community for years. This is a group for those seeking various aspects of BDSM and relationships with people who are interested in BDSM in the Houston Area. Looking for a buddy? You can find them here. Looking for a date to that event coming up next weekend? You can find them here. Looking for a room mate? You can find them here. Need some help getting to Saturday meetings or events around Houston? You can find them here. Looking for the love…
- Harris > Houston City
- Ultimate Swinger’s Parties. A community for those in the “Swinging Lifestyle” who are seeking to meet other like minded couples & individuals, to share ideas and opinions on lifestyle related subjects including comments & questions about the Swinging.
- Dallas > Dallas City
- 3600 square feet of fun, DJ at Saturdays. Off-premises club run since 1971. Single guys allowed at Thursdays’ nights.
- Washington > Washington
- Lifestyle-Friendly, Clothing-Optional Resort, nestled in the rolling hills between Navasota and Brenham. Special events and parties with accent on nudity, but on-premises allowed as it’s a resort, and there is a lot of space and guestrooms.
- Washington > Washington
- A Private Clothing-Optional Resort and Night Club. Live Oak Resort is a private, gated clothing-optional community catering to fun-loving people of all recreational interests. Nestled in the rolling hills between Navasota and Brenham, Texas less than 80 miles northwest of Houston, we are dedicated to your recreational enjoyment.
- Lubbock > Lubbock City
- Welcome to Lubbock Swingers – a subsidiary of Lubbock Alt-Life. This group is operated out of Lubbock and dedicated towards swingers and the swing lifestyle as a whole. Whether you are curious about swinging or you have several years in the lifestyle, this is the place to connect with other swingers in the Lubbock community. We’re open to partnered couples as well as unicorns, hotwifes, paramours, bulls, and other singles not otherwise listed and/or specified. If you’re into full-swap, soft-swap, girl-on-girl, or same room play, this group is for you. Restricted to Lubbock, TX and surrounding area. Rules: WHAT IS ALLOWED – Personals/Classfieds are allowed. This room also allows the posting of Lubbock-area community events where swing activity is permitted. This includes, but is…
- Dallas > Dallas City
- An on-premise swing lifestyle group that has a live DJ and specifically meant for people who want to take fun to the next level.
- Dallas > Dallas City
- NEAAL SETS THE STANDARD FOR EXCELLENCE IN DEBAUCHERY AND DECADENCE – No Alcohol parties.
- Travis > Austin City
- For non-monogamous people of all types in Austin, TX. Poly, open, swinger, however you identify, you are welcome. Home of the High Five Social Club. Not affiliated with Poly Austin. Rules: No classifieds Be respectful
- Van Zandt > Wills Point
- 4U a Clothing Optional Resort is a private 166-acre facility for couples only (21+) featuring a secluded paradise far enough away to remove you from your hectic routine, yet still only a scenic car ride away. Whether you are looking for a leisurely day lounging by the pool or a high-energy night complete with dancing on a laser light dance floor, you will find it all here. We are a private gated resort featuring seven cabins, two b-n-b, full RV hook-ups and tent sites complete with electricity and water. Amenities at 4U include numerous full restrooms and showering areas, large swimming pool and hot tub, community kitchen, gas grills, and outdoor/indoor eating areas. Xcape is a state of the art…
- Harris > Houston City
- Off-premises club with no obligatory membership. Single men aren’t allowed.
