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List of Local New York (NY) Sex & Swingers Clubs


  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
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  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Number 1 non-censored dating app for swinger sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo all in the same place, full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached sex with you!
Adult Socials
Amante’s
  • Kings > Brooklyn borough
  • An upscale club where all Fridays are ladies night, ladies free until midnight. Watch videos and get frisky in the scarlet lounge and afterwards you can enjoy our queen size beds. Men must come with their dates at all times. All are welcome
Badd Kitty
  • Chautauqua > Fredonia
  • 15-person hot-tub, with luxurious towels and lockers for your personal affects. Comfortable, intimate candle-lit sitting areas with plush leather furniture. Pool table, dart board, and games offered to willing participants all evening! 4 Theme rooms.
BAR-LOOSE
Becca’s Fun House
  • Herkimer > Little Falls
  • Your Hosts We have been in the Lifestyle for years and have had an Amazing time.  During this time we have met with people privately and at parties but we really enjoy the party scene the most because it’s like a Buffet!  Initially we started out going to parties then began hosting hotel parties.  Now we have decided to step it up a few notches and set up a permanent location for our events.  So welcome to Becca’s Fun House!!! We can’t wait to see you! James & Becca Becca’s Fun House Rules: Becca’s Fun House is an adult lifestyle (Swinger) club. Everyone is highly respected at Becca’s Fun House. Stalking or harassment is never permitted and if excessive can result…
Behind Closed Doors
  • New York > New York City
  • Behind Closed Doors is a swingers club located in New York City. This on-premise club hosts events for couples and single females who are adults only. At Behind Closed Doors, you can expect to experience the hottest events and have a great time with like-minded individuals. Whether you’re an experienced swinger or new to the scene, you’ll find a welcoming and accepting atmosphere at Behind Closed Doors. With a focus on fun and exploration, Behind Closed Doors is the perfect place to let your hair down and enjoy yourself. Whether you’re looking to engage in group play, threesomes, or more, you’ll find plenty of opportunities to do so at this club. So come and join the fun at Behind Closed…
Bowery Bliss
  • New York > New York City
  • You enter a nondescript metal door, a light beckoning you to a second glass door beyond which is certain… You’ve entered Bowery Bliss, Manhattan’s premier swinger club! Read Bowery Bliss review below and do the right choice… Open every Tuesday thru Saturday and for special events! Come See the “NEW” Bowery Bliss ** 1000 Sq. Ft of additional Play Space ** ** 3 NEW private Play Rooms (5 total) ** ** New Fetish Play Room ** ** NEW furniture and mattresses throughout ** NOW over 5000 Sq. Ft. on three floors Open every Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday & Saturday and for special events! Tuesday & Thursday nights Couples, Single Women and Single Men welcome to attend. Wednesday, Friday and Saturday…
Brandie’s Adult Parties
  • New York (NY) > The View
  • BYOB, we don’t charge for the parties but all donations are excepted, on-premises.
Caligula New York
  • New York > New York City
  • Caligula NEW YORK .:. AN On-Premise Swinger Club Experience Like No Other! Welcome to Caligula NEW YORK! Caligula NEW YORK is a private, upscale, on-premise swinger social club for couples, single ladies and select single gentlemen. Located in Astoria, Queens, right outside of New York City, Caligula NEW YORK offers a sexy atmosphere that is dedicated to sexual exploration, the art of love making, and sexual fulfillment. Our on-premise swinger’s club provides a no-pressure environment where people can meet old friends and make new ones in a safe, secure manner, as well as other amenities such as BYOB, FREE parking, and LIVE DJs. This club was created by individuals in the LifeStyle for the LifeStyle…a place where you can be as tame…
Carnal Connections
  • New York > New York City
  • On- and off-premises Lifestyle parties at various locations throughout the Tri-State area.
Casbar
Charldine [International]
  • Niagara > Niagara Falls City
  • We accept adults of consensual legal age. They are committed to explore and develop their sexuality. They demonstrate a willingness to receive as well as to give while participating in our on premises parties.
CHECKMATE NYC
  • New York > New York City
  • CHECKMATE NYC is a private, safe, sexy & fun established New York City Swingers Club. We specialize in creating a fabulous, seductive and sensual environment for like-minded couples and female friends to play and explore their sexual pleasures.  We offer our Club Members the ULTIMATE in the Lifestyle Experience! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3dMXuenFgQ Our friendly staff prides themselves in assuring the members of Checkmate receive the best possible service. Our typical members are hot bodies, hip, sexy, social, respectful, seductive and always playful. As a private club, Checkmate NYC reserves the right to select it’s members and has a ‘velvet-rope’ policy, meaning that we are selective for your pleasure and not all who apply will receive memberships.  Please Visit Our MEMBERS PAGE for Details. Membership At Checkmate, we welcome WELL DRESSED, fit, attractive…
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DDevious Delights
  • New York > New York City
  • DDeviousDelights was formed by a number of friends with roots in both the swing and BDSM communities who saw many synergies between these two groups. felt that they were complementary in many ways and perceived a lack of venues where both could be simultaneously experienced and enjoyed. DDeviousDelights is inclusive of all people that have a true interest in exploring their sexuality as well as their kink. While we don’t expect everyone to enjoy everything, we feel that we offer enough opportunities for those looking to expand their horizons and explore with other like-minded people in a safe and discrete environment. And no one will ever pressure you to do anything you are not prepared to do.
Deviate Network
  • Orange > Middletown
  • Deviate Network Members are the hottest couples and single ladies, who are for real and verified. Our attention to detail at every event shows. We believe in quality, not quantity. We attract sexy, fun and attractive couples and single ladies, who are looking to make connections in the lifestyle. All of our events are exclusive members only. WHY DEVIATE? Deviate Network Host fun and exciting. Exclusive Members only Adult Lifestyle Events in the Hudson Valley. Our VIP Style Events are exclusive, fun, secure, private environment to meet sexy like-minded couples and single ladies in your area. ATTENTION TO DETAIL Deviate Network have the hottest events around! Our quality guest list of sexy couples and single ladies are for real and verified.…
Do you know George?
  • New York > New York City
  • An exotic swing club that enables people to mingle and have fun, presenting you with multiple opportunities for you and your mate.Come and share the fun.
Encounters
Encounters NY
Erotic Sensations Inc
  • New York > New York City
  • Swinger Parties and Meet ups at local clubs, bars, beaches, etc. For only the YOUNG, HOT, and SEXY. Under 35, with very limited exceptions. We are 22/24 and founded this group to ensure that when we party its only with the Hottest Couples and Singles.
GSpot
  • New York > New York City
  • A New Style of On-Premise Swinging for like-minded Hot, Sexy Couples and Sensational, Succulent, Single Bi-females who enjoy The Swinging Lifestyle.
HOTNYCSWINGERS
  • Bronx > Bronx borough
  • winging couples dating for romance, adult fun, party or simply friendship.
Hudson Valley Polyamory Society  FetLife Group
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • This group is for polyamorous people or those related to or in a relationship with someone who is polyamorous, or any poly-curious folks who live or work in the Hudson Valley of New York or surrounding areas. This group is specific to people interested in the polyamorous lifestyle regardless of sexual orientation, gender, or relationship status. Both kinky and strictly vanilla poly people are welcome to join this group. Please, no personal ads here in the group. There are plenty of other local groups specifically for personal ads nearby. Key words: Newburgh, Beacon, Poughkeepsie, Washingtonville, Middletown, New Paltz, Kingston, Albany, Goshen, Warwick, Chester, Port Jervis, Highland, Wappingers, Woodbury, Monroe, Harriman, Orange, Ulster, Duchess, Bergan, Sussex, Pike, Monticello, Westchester, Putnam, Sullivan,…
Intimacy
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Labyrinth
  • New York > New York City
  • Labyrinth is an ON-PREMISE club for the adventurous adult who embraces the kink and/or swinger lifestyles. It is unapologetically different from other swinger parties. A dark, exciting, sexually charged yet sensual atmosphere without anything to distract you from why you came. All are welcome, exhibitionists and voyeurs alike. We have private locations with multiple levels and surprises at every turn. You will find group playrooms, semi-private areas, lounge areas, play stations, smoking space, BYOB bar and a discreet, secure entrance. So whether you want to watch, play or get your kink on we have a little something for everyone! All our events are BYOB (bring your own bottle) but bar service, mixers and light fare are provided. Come play with…
LETHAL SEDUCTION
  • New York > New York City
  • LETHAL SEDUCTION IS RAN BY A SWINGER COUPLE. {HIM}LETHAL {HER}SEDUCTION…… TOGETHER WE ARE “LETHAL SEDUCTION”. THIS IS A ADULT ENTERTAINMENT BUSINESS THAT CATERS EVERYONES SEXUAL DESIRES. THIS COMPANY OFFER SO MANY SERVICES. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO FULLFILL YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE AND HAVE FUN AT THE SAME TIME. IF YOUR TIRED OF ATTENDING THE SAME SWINGER PARTIES AND SPENDING YOUR HARD EARNED CASH AND JUST FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE NOT CLINGING WITH ANYONE…… GUESS WHAT?KEEP READING AND CHECK OUT ALL OUR SERVICES WE OFFER. WHEN YOU’RE DONE YOU WILL BE URGE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF “LETHAL SEDUCTION” LETHAL SEDUCTION PARTIES CAN SATISFY YOUR EVERY NEED FROM SWINGER 101 CLASSES, MEET & GREETS, GAME NIGHTS,LADIES NIGHTS,GROUP CHATS AND MUCH MORE. PLEASE KEEP IN…
LI-BI-do Long Island Bisexuals
  • Queens > Long Island
  • Social group Women, men and couples are all welcome You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly or Bi-curious.
LIGangbang
  • Nassau > Massapequa
  • Couples and Singles meet once a month for parties or in private.
Long Island FetLife Group
  • Queens > Long Island
  • A social group for Swingers on LI. This group is opened to swingers and those interested in the lifestyle; those looking to meet other swingers or singles into the lifestyle; setting up meet & greets and parties. Always fun to go a vanilla place with a group of Swingers as we tend to be less inhibited and often flirtatious and our conversations are way more lively than the ordinary 😉 Rules NO bashing, name calling, blowing people’s spot up. NO posts that are overly crude or disrespectful. ALL personals ads are to be worded as though you were talking to the person face to face meaning don’t post “looking to get my cock sucked”, etc. Again yes the lifestyle is…
Long Island Swingers Party Group
  • Suffolk > Babylon Town
  • long Island swingers are on-premise parties for couples and single guys. Now have no stable locations, so oriented on hotel suites. If you are into Fetish or you are a DOM, we would love to talk to you about coming and showing off what you do.
Merrymakers
  • Erie > Buffalo City
  • Open to “couples and single females only”, Merrymakers holds monthly dances (2nd Saturday) and occasional special events.
Metro New York City FetLife Group
  • New York > New York City
  • We are a group of like minded-individuals who enjoy exploring their kinky side and indulging their fantasies in safe and sensual places. This group is for discussion of swinger events in new york city, reviews of places, articles on swinging etc. Rules: No drama will be tolerated, any flaming, derogatory comments will get you removed. As our mothers always said if you dont have something nice to say keep it to yourself.
Mystique
  • New York > Manhattan Borough
  • A special mix of On and Off premise going on. There was a huge dance floor for the off premise teasing and dancing. There was a center bar where drinks were served by two very beautiful ladies. There were two private play rooms up front for two to four couples to play and a Huge seperate play room for group activities. If anyone was not into the on-premise stuff they didn’t have to see it in there faces, and could just enjoy the danceing and off-premise stuff in the main area.
New York Interracial Swingers
New York Videophiles
NY Chameleon
  • New York > New York City
  • These parties are small and intimate and will thusly be kept to the “Invite Only” requirement.
NYC Couples Only Swinger Parties FetLife Group
  • New York > New York City
  • Sexy Attractive Couples only Swinger Events in the NYC Area. Must be pre-screened to attend We hold monthly parties in Upscale Hotels Suites and Clubs Restricted to: Swinger Couples and Single Females Rules: 18-45 years old NO Single Males
NYC Fetlife Group
NYC Private Party
  • New York > New York City
  • Hotel parties as well as house parties, which couples and females are welcome to attend. Sex Club Nyc Welcome to the “Official” NYC Private Party Group website. We are a 21 and over Swingers Party Group established in New York City, 15 years ago in 2005. We hold announced, monthly friendship based Swinger Parties (as well as unannounced, by “Invitation Only” small get-togethers). Text the word “Guestlist” to attend our latest, Upcoming Gangbang, or fill out “The NYC Private Party Guestlist Form” completely by signing up below with your gmail, hotmail, or yahoo email address, your cellphone number and by attaching a “required”, G-Rated, clear, face photo also, in order to be placed on our “Guestlist” for this exciting, “not…
NYC Subspace FetLife Group
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • NYC Subspace Swingers is an established group of fit, attractive, open-minded adults who embrace the Swinger Lifestyle. We hold bi-weekly swinger parties in an upscale, discrete location in Manhattan for couples, single females and select single males. We also hold Meet and Greets, Pool Parties and Special Events at local establishments always followed by a sexy after party. Rules: All are welcome, however anyone judged by Group Leaders as being disrespectful, abusive or negative will be blocked from the group. Any event must first be submitted to Group Leaders for review and approval. Personals are allowed by group members though any repeat personals will be blocked and excessive posting of personals may result in banning from the group.
NYC Swingers Party
NYSwingers Partys
OnLegUp
  • New York > New York City
  • erotic social club with naughty site and alluring pictures. Info about events and hosts, games, music and store.
Pendulum NYC
  • New York > New York City
  • An on-premise restaurant that has the best dance floor and live DJ. Come and have fun that will make you yearn for more. Pendulum NYC wait for you!
PLEASE Party
  • New York > New York City
  • There’s a handful of pretty good lifestyle parties in Manhattan, each with its own style. Please Party has a simple concept with a puritan style – Simply gathering thee most physically attractive, single girls and couples in this area in one beautiful location. Epic! Now, we realize that many will frown upon such a superficial approach and we certainly don’t mean to turn anyone off but .. it is what it is. We understand all the parties attempt to have the most attractive attendees but they have to make financial considerations which dilutes that goal. At Please Party there is only one priority. If it is not met, we simply don’t have that party. Each couple/single girl must be unanimously…
Pleasure Salon FetLife Group
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • Discussion, comments and insights about the Pleasure Salon. First Monday of every month @ The Delancey (168 Delancey St New York, NY 10002) 6-10 pm. This gathering is free. The Pleasure Salon has been created to build community, allowing sex-positive activists to cross-pollinate. Our gatherings bring together members of the BDSM, swinger, alternative gender, LGBT, sex-activist, sex educator, nudist, sex-magic, polyamory, Pagan, radical faerie, tantra, dark odyssey, sex-blogger, porn, pervert and sex-worker communities, and others whose passion is sex. (Let us know if we missed any one of you!) Through building networks and community, The Pleasure Salon hopes to help create a sex-positive world. It is a place for the open exchange of ideas and sensual expression. Join us in…
PrivateListParty
  • New York > New York City
  • A venue for easy going ,educated, attractive, and iconoclastic Women and Couples.
Red Light Events
  • New York > New York City
  • RedLightEvents parties are just that, a “PARTY”! The only difference is here, you do whatever  you want, and nothing you don’t! These are On-Premise Events in New York City, for the Hottest and Classiest crowd of like minded couples and single women in the “Lifestyle”. **All Events are for Couples and Single Women ONLY!!** ***NO UN-ESCORTED SINGLE MEN WILL BE ADMITTED*** Our events are Classy, Sexy, Seductive, and very Erotic!! If you are looking for a CRAZY HOUSE PARTY, this is NOT for you!! What make our Events different is that the atmosphere is  amazingly casual, friendly, and easy going. All events are geared for the BEGINNER or”NEWBIE” in mind, to make joining the lifestyle a very easy and enjoyable experience! Whether you’re a newbie or a…
  • United States of America (USA) > New York (NY)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even sex/swingers clubs can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most swingers clubs and local sex groups have their pages at the place we talk about.

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