Virginia’s Secret (Norforlk) Sex & Swingers Club
Address: Norfolk, Virginia, Norfolk, VA, USA
Email: [email protected]
Website: https://www.vasecret.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vasecrettravel/
Twitter: @vrginiasecret
Virginia’s Secret offers a friendly club for open minded adults as well as fabulous travel vacations.
If you are looking for an exciting & fun lifestyle, then check out our Events and Travel opportunities
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A Private Club for Adults
Virginia’s Secret provides a fun and exciting environment for consenting adults to enjoy their uninhibited lifestyle. Explore your fantasies in a unique and exciting social Dance club atmosphere. Virginia’s Secret is a Private by Invitation Only, Social Club catering to mature, open-minded adults.
Website Membership, and “SecretCard” Membership is available to select couples & single females ONLY.
Virginia’s Secret is a friendly club for open minded adults. If this is your first time to a Lifestyle club then you picked the right place. Whether you’re an experienced club go-er or just a bit curious, we offer a comfortable, no pressure lifestyle club environment for you to meet, eat, drink and be entertained.
We are all here to have the best times and share the uninhibited enjoyment associated with those who discover a new dimension to their lifestyle. When you visit our club and become familiar with the environment and meet some members, we are confident you will feel at ease.
Are you a bit shy? Don’t worry. Many of our regular members will probably help “Break The Ice” by introducing themselves to you. It’s their way of making you feel at home. There’s never any pressure to do anything your not ready for, and if you simply want to sit and relax, then that’s perfectly fine too. Feel free to ask questions and talk openly. You’ll discover how helpful our regular members can be. Our members are polite, sophisticated and composed of a delightful variety of age (over21), culture, looks and styles.
New Couples
We are “newbie” friendly and a great place to get your feet wet. Most couples who are talking about looking into swinging are very concerned about the basics. They don’t want to be pushed or pressured. They don’t want to go anywhere where they’re told to remove their clothes at a certain time. They just want to go somewhere comfortable and friendly. Virginia’s Secret certainly fits the bill.
We like to have conversations with prospective couples so that we can be sure they tell us their questions and we can answer them. It’s never a good thing for a couple who hasn’t examined their motivation for becoming swingers to attend a party without any background. We have discovered along our journey into the lifestyle that it’s really not all about sex. In fact, for us, it’s mostly about finding really nice people to be friends with. The matter-of-fact approach that we take at the club makes new couples feel much less pressured right from the start.
We believe strongly that “Swinging is an attitude, not just an activity.”
Membership
How do we become Virginia’s Secret members?
To become a member of Virginia’s Secret, you must be a couple (male and female) or single female and have an open-minded view of human sexuality.
- Fill out a Membership Application that includes a G or R rated full length photograph of yourself(s) including your faces. If this is a couples application the picture should have you both pictured in a single shot. The picture must be current. No picture no approval!
- You will then pay a small membership fee to belong to our website Social Feed.
- Once you have a profile and a picture place on our Social Feed you can then get to know our web members and possibly obtain a referral to attend “ONE” of our events, to check us out.
- You MUST be sponsored by a current “SecretCard” member of Virginia’s Secret to be invited to join us for your “One Event” as a non-SecretCard Holder/Member.
- If we all agree it’s a good fit you will be invited to join as a SecretCard Holder, with all of the benefits given them.There is a one-time membership fee involved in becoming a “SecretCard” Holder.
- All SecretCard members must attend 1 out of every 3 events to maintain your membership status. Your Membership stays intact based on you fulfilling this requirement over the first year and subsequent years. You will never have to pay another membership fee. For Example:
- 1st year Membership Fee upon joining.
- 2nd year No Membership Fee for attending 1 out of every 3 events!
- 3rd year No Membership Fee for attending 1 out of every 3 events!
- 4th year etc……etc….
- Membership fees are due upon acceptance of membership and before you attend your second event.
- Not everyone who inquires or whom are members of the Virginia’s Secret, Website Social Feed will be accepted as a “SecretCard” Holder/Member.
- Virginia’s Secret maintains the right to deny or cancel membership and privileges!
Virginia’s Secret Rules & Regulations:
All members attending VAS functions are expected to be courteous, law abiding and friendly at all times.
- No Means NO! No exceptions! Zero Tolerance!
- Anyone applying for membership and admission to VAS must agree to be bound by all rules, regulations & By-Laws; they must certify that they are at least 21 years of age; and that they will not use their membership to engage in prostitution or pandering. This includes the possession or use of any illegal or controlled substances in or on the property of any club function.
- We reserve the right to ask anyone to leave, revoke membership of any person who becomes obnoxious, unruly, engages in any illegal acts, or casts aspersions against VAS. VAS reserve’s the right to refuse admission and membership to anyone without cause or explanation, as is the right of a private club.
- Management also prohibits the use of cameras or recording devices of any kind, and shall pursue such legal remedies available in order to preserve the rights of the club and its members.
- The applicant will also acknowledge that they are aware that VAS is a private club established for the use of the membership, certifying also that free expression among consenting adults is not offensive and must recognize the constitutional rights of the members.
- Dress to impress! Dress Code is upper casual. Baseball caps, t-shirts and work boots is NOT acceptable unless part of a theme party! If your clothing attire is not acceptable in normal public events, please wear a cover up in the common public areas of the hotel or any club venue.
- Cell phone usage during a VAS party is not allowed. Should you have a call, please leave the party until your conversation is complete. Webcasting, podcasting is strictly prohibited unless sanctioned by VAS.
- Arguing, bickering, fighting or disrespectful behavior between you and your mate or with any other members of VS is not acceptable.
- Respect those who wish to be left alone. Do not be pushy or insistent upon participation in any individual or club activities. No harassment!
- No one under the age of 21 is allowed on a secured floor of a hotel or at any club function where alcohol is. This includes inside your hotel room, around the pool, or in the house.
- Members can only recommend other couples (male female) or a single female for membership, but VAS solely reserves the right to approve or disaprove any person from membership. No single males!
- We reserve the right to charge a fee of our choosing to any prospective new member for membership. Fee is quoted by the owners of VAS and solely at the discretion of the owners and not necessarily the same for everyone.
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